I saw a lot of people started talking to their mate after learning that info, TELLING them what was in their own head. Still, not a whole lot have changed, maybe even bit more arguments. Then, there are still so many unhappy family, and traumatized children.
Good communication needs to have a lot more Listening than Telling. Before we tell our mates what we want, did we hear what they’ve just said? What did they say that they want? Even if we are not able to give them all, shouldn’t we try to respond to their wish with our action? Couldn’t we afford to give some before we get more? It’s a much better deal if you would believe me.
And if one could learn to use all the sensors to hear what the other one is saying beyond the words can convey, mentally and physically, one would soon be able to bring heaven to earth any time one desires.
This is how you build Sensitivity.