Why are some people dominant, and some submissive? Yes, I am talking about the people in a Dom & Sub relationship.

I believe all of the conscious ( even pre-conscious) choice came ultimately from the sense of pleasure. It gives each person pleasure to serve his/her role, even if it is physically painful. But not all Doms do the same. Neither do all the Subs. What’s the difference?

Well, the question is, what really made people choose their role? What’s their own understanding of the choice?

I want to know Your role, how you feel, and. . .     what you fear.